Should I be doing more?

-Friend A. T is so motivated, so many hobbies, so many friends, so outgoing
-An inspiration, my Nepali friends dont hobby much
-Self identity issues-despite everything, perhaps that's who I aspire to become. I shoud be getting my hobbies tighter, get more, make more friends.
-No cause of immediate concern, just explore possibility there are people who are fully occupied and it's okay to aspire that way& put more effort