-Been a while since I had to put real hard work and effort into an adult relationship
-Most of them have been 'special circumstances' where the complexities of logistics made all other 'real' issues moot
-Being in a serious adult relationship means not assigning thoughts an intentions to actions, giving space, talking openly and clearly about each other's desires
-The transparency can lead to hurt feelings, but opacity only pushes issues to an unknown future
-Impatience and anxiety are the 'easy' way out of any healthy situation, and the benefit nobody eventually
-Kindness and generosity are of prime importance, if only to protect oneself from the pitfalls of impatience. Escalating matters without understanding the stakes is pointless
-It's okay, it's going to be okay, and they're definitely trying to fight
Aug 28, Seattle Office Downstairs
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