On my need of safety in the comfort of a 'closed loop' social circle

The best means, I have thought, to express myself on topics complicated and fraught, is prose poetry. No commitment to the rhyme or the verse, no need to make the sentences short and terse. But on the other hand, the substance can be light to and I can be more on the flowery stand, thus avoiding content and also the pressure to rhyme. Saves me lots of effort& so much time.
I have come to the realization, any need of a friend or a partner is complete when it breaks down compartmentalization. Would it not be so very great if a my friends, and my partner, were already in the
a
same group, and they'd all already met!? No issue of introductions of lack of compatibility proper, all I'd have to do is bring them over, and say, high friends this is so and so but I don't need to tell you since you already know her. Oh how simple things would be, if every body already knew everybody!
That not necessarily good, that I know quit well. For if things go real south, all will come crashing down in a fell. Oh but if you are all a single circle, maybe things will be learnt faster and failure will be harder? That's what I imagine/
Round and Round, and round and round the circle goes. Number of family members from the same school, no boundary knows. Is it a good idea, or is it oh so bad, perhaps the limiting numbers are making me just too sad?